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CONFIDENCE IS KEY

Being confident and positive is the best approach, both when communicating online and when you meet your date.


USA Music Dating have teamed up with professional writer and blogger 'Meena Avery' to give you the inside knowledge of the world of music, love and romance.

Meena Avery

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DO YOU HAVE TO BE HOT TO GET A DATE

Online dating can be especially frustrating for people who don't have model bodies or typical beauty by societal standards. A question I frequently get asked is, "if I'm not hot, how do I get a girl to go out with me?" What we have to remember is that most people don't really look like they just stepped off the cover of a magazine in their day to day life. Attractiveness goes far beyond what we can see in a profile picture. The key is getting an opportunity to show the person of your affection what you have to offer.

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"It is possible for a skinny blonde to be happy and satisfied by a slightly overweight nerdy guy who treats her like a queen"

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The way the online dating industry is set up is superficial. Having the option to flip from one picture and one profile to the next so easily gives the illusion of endless options. There will always be another profile, maybe a prettier face, or athletic body. Unfortunately, this leads to not appreciating someone's personality. I never advocate for settling, but it seems like with all the supposed choices, people aren't looking for the qualities that really matter in a relationship and simply want to find someone hot. I do agree chemistry and attraction are important in every relationship.

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"Even if you aren't going to be the next Brad Pitt or Jennifer Aniston what matters more is confidence. ."

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However, it is possible for a skinny blonde to be happy and satisfied by a slightly overweight nerdy guy who treats her like a queen. Any decent woman doesn't simply want her own version of a ken doll. Remember the saying that there is someone for everyone. I believe that is true. Even if you aren't going to be the next Brad Pitt or Jennifer Aniston what matters more is confidence. If you believe that you deserve love you will attract someone who believes that about you. If you feel like you need to convince yourself you're good enough for someone, you're going to always be trying to convince your date as well.

Tips on how to increase your odds in getting a date:

1. Be confident. This is the single most attractive feature a man or woman can have. Don't act desperate because you feel like no one else will ever go out with you.

2. Be a great listener, be considerate, but also remind your date that you have a lot of great qualities to offer.

3. Send a lot of messages to people online. Go out on a lot of dates if for no other reason than to simply practice our social skills and increase your confidence.

4. Engage in social gatherings. This is another way to meet people and boost self-assurance. Talk with people everywhere you go including the person next to you in line at Starbucks, the cashier at the grocery store, the waitress at dinner. Everywhere you go practice making eye contact and interacting with people. You never know who you're going to meet or where. Put yourself out there as much as possible so when the right person comes along you'll be confident enough to ask them out!

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