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The dating scene can be difficult, but remember that the only person you can change is yourself. So, should you be putting up with other peoples baggage or just stop and move on?

USA Music Dating have teamed up with professional writer and blogger 'Meena Avery' to give you the inside knowledge of the world of music, love and romance.

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Do you ever feel frustrated because you are doing everything right when it comes to dating, and you keep meeting people who pull away. Even if you're a great guy who remembers to hold the door, make eye contact during conversation, come up with fun things on your dates, the person you're seeing might continue to pull away from you for reasons that have nothing do with you. Naturally you take it personally, like they're rejecting you; however it's important to remember that sometimes it isn't about you at all.


"Everyone comes into each new relationship with their own baggage."


Everyone comes into each new relationship with their own baggage. Sometimes because of being hurt in the past a person might be more hesitant to trust someone new. As people get older and date more regularly they might get burnt out, and it can take longer for them to open up. The most important thing to remember is that as frustrating as the dating scene can be, when you meet someone who isn't in the same place in their life as you are, the relationship cannot work. Therefore, if someone is pushing you away, not opening up to you, even though you are doing everything you can to be a good catch; it just means that you both aren't at the same place emotionally, or mentally. This doesn't mean you aren't a great catch for the right person. Unfortunately, you just haven't met the right person yet. Don't give up. All you can do is be available yourself, deal with all of your own issues so that you bring the best version of yourself to your new relationship. When the right person comes along, you'll both appreciate that about each other, and both be in the same place in your lives to enter into a healthy, long-lasting relationship.


"Don't say you're looking for a serious relationship if you only want to date casually."


Suggestions on how to make yourself more "available" before entering the dating scene:

1. Don't enter into the dating scene (online or otherwise) until you've healed from your previous relationship. No one wants to date someone who is still hung up on their ex.

2. Be honest about what you're looking for. On your profile and when you meet someone new make sure you tell people what type of relationship you really want. Don't say you're looking for a serious relationship if you only want to date casually. That just wastes people's time and energy. Dating is hard enough with people who are both looking for the same type of relationship.

3. Be optimistic: even though you might have to go on a lot of first dates to meet someone you click with, when the right one comes along, all of those previous dates will seem like a path leading to the right person.

Good luck dating and remember that the only person you can change is yourself. Become the best version of yourself before you put up that dating profile. Don't settle for someone you want to change because the person who is right for you is out there and they are worth waiting for.

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